Teaching My Kids Value Beyond the Dollar

I’m aware of the argument that kids should just be allowed to be kids and should not have to worry about adult problems. So maybe this is controversial, but I am pretty open and honest with my kids about money.

Sometimes I get back from work and I’m like; “guess what, dudes. I made $180 today and just spent $236 on groceries.” I like it when their eyes go big and they feel it. It’s important. And not so that they worry, but so they are aware and build an appreciation.

When I took Cameron on her one on one trip 7 years ago it was a particularly tight year, but I was determined to make this adventure happen with the oldest daughter. Our trip was to Thermopolis, Wyoming to dig up dinosaur bones in an active bone bed. I budgeted like crazy and came home with one American dollar left in my pocket (and not much more in my personal account). The experience and memories from that trip were priceless and will last a lifetime. How much money I had, or didn’t have, didn’t stop me from having a memorable adventure with the girl (I’m also a firm believer that memories and experiences are the only things we take with us when we check out so that really motivates me).

And if I’m being honest, the adventurous side of me got a real charge out of the narrow escape. Like a financial Indiana Jones moment - YESSSSSS we DID it!!!

Like with many things in life, sometimes they think I’m crazy, but they also know I’m crazy capable when I set my mind to something. And; money can always be made. And if my kids believe I’m capable then they know they’ve got it in their DNA too.

My job isn’t just to protect them, it’s also to prepare and inspire them.